Newsletter - 16th March 2019

 

 

Hampshire parish registers briefly online BREAKING NEWS

Ancestry UK DNA sale begins - at last!

Understanding Ancestry's ThruLines

How ThruLines™ can help - even when they're wrong!

Anglicised surnames: follow up

Queensland genealogy conference

Never give up! Searching for an unknown father

How Mary lost one father and found another

Sylvie finds a half-sister

Penny saved a life

What am I reading?

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Hampshire parish registers briefly online BREAKING NEWS

A week ago that I reported that FamilySearch had added 2 million parish records - but warned that the parish register pages could only be viewed at Family History Centre or affiliated library (such as the Society of Genealogists).

 

Yesterday (Friday) I discovered, thanks to LostCousins member David, that the register images were available online - which sounded like excellent news for anyone with ancestors from Hampshire. But today (Saturday) they've disappeared. At this stage I've no idea whether what I saw on Friday was a programming glitch or a trial, so if you have any insight into what happened, please let me know.

 

In the meantime, if you do have Hampshire ancestry, I'd suggesting crossing your fingers and checking from time to time......

 

 

Ancestry UK DNA sale begins - at last!

In the last issue I was able to tell you about the special offers in the US, Canada, and Australia that are timed to coincide with St Patrick's Day (17th March). Those offers all end on Sunday or Monday - you'll find full details and links here.

 

Now it’s the turn of researchers in the UK - you can save £20 on Ancestry DNA, bringing the price down by 25% to just £59 (plus shipping - which is £10 for the first kit, plus £5 for each additional kit ordered at the same time and sent to the same address).

 

Remember, you can only order DNA kits from your local Ancestry site - in fact, you'll usually be re-routed to your local site when you try to access the DNA section of an overseas site.

 

Note: if you've previously purchased an Ancestry DNA test you may need to log-out from your Ancestry account before clicking the link below.

 

 

Ancestry.co.uk - £59 plus shipping SALE ENDS 11.59pm (London time) Wednesday 27th March

 

 

Understanding Ancestry's ThruLines

When you test at Ancestry you're likely to have at least 20,000 matches with genetic cousins, and quite possibly 40,000 or more. Clearly it'll never be possible to figure out how you’re connected to all of them, but how do you determine which of those thousands of matches are worth following up?

 

One approach is to follow the strategies in my Masterclass - these focus attention on the matches that are most likely to help you knock down your 'brick walls'.

 

But now there's another option being trialled at Ancestry: ThruLines deduces possible connections using the wealth of information in Ancestry trees - not just the trees of your genetic cousins, but any public or (searchable) private tree, whether the tree owner has tested their DNA or not. However, please bear in mind that Ancestry are coming up with hints, and not definite answers!

 

Nevertheless, if you use both methods you'll be more successful than if you rely on one or the other.

 

 

How ThruLines™ can help - even when they're wrong!

In the last issue I included an example from Kate's tree so that those of you who haven't tested your DNA with Ancestry, or haven't qualified for the beta test could get a feeling for how ThruLines works.

 

Most Ancestry trees contain errors, of course, so the leads that ThruLines provides are only as good as the trees they're based on - but it might surprise you to know even when the trees are wrong (as they were in Kate's example) it’s still possible to make useful discoveries.

 

When we research our ancestors we're generally working backwards in time, and - not surprisingly - the information recorded on certificates and in parish registers is most helpful when we're working backwards. Working forwards, as we do when we're tracking the branches of our tree, is significantly more difficult.

 

For example, I long ago found the marriage of my great-great grandmother's youngest sister, Charlotte in 1872 - she married a sailor, so when I couldn't find them on any of the subsequent censuses I presumed they'd gone overseas. What I didn’t expect, and didn’t look for, was a second marriage to another sailor in 1881 - using her maiden name and claiming to be a spinster.

 

I would probably never have discovered the second marriage had ThruLines not prompted me to look at the tree in which it was recorded - the tree owner isn’t a DNA match of mine, or even a cousin.

 

But for me, perhaps the most valuable aspect of ThruLines is the way it draws my attention to discrepancies in the trees of other Ancestry users, some of whom are my cousins. So far everyone I've contacted has been grateful for my assistance, even though some have turned out not to be cousins at all.

 

 

Anglicised surnames: follow up

It's not always obvious when one of our ancestors has changed their surname. Following the article in the last issue Ann wrote in with this example from her cousin's tree:

 

"I spent nearly 3 years looking for Christina Lawrence, my cousin's natural grandmother, to no avail, but after contact with a DNA match, we discovered that her name was Lorenz - her father was German. During the 1st World War Lorenz was anglicised to Lawrence."

 

With the benefit of hindsight it's obvious - but if you've got no hint that your ancestors were immigrants it's very hard indeed to pick up something like this.

 

 

Queensland genealogy conference

If you live in Queensland, or are going to be there towards the end of May, you'll be interested to know that the 'Waves in Time' Family & Local History Conference & Fair is being held between 24th-26th May 2019 at the Lake Kawana Community Centre (in Bokarina).

 

For full details please follow this link to the conference website - there's a very impressive list of speakers.

 

Note: if you book your place at the conference before the end of March you'll qualify for the Early Bird rates. The fair is free, including the talks on Friday morning.

 

 

Never give up! Searching for an unknown father

I've been corresponding with Bob for many years, so I was delighted to hear of his success - and asked his permission to share the story with you.....

 

"On my birthday last November, if I’d had looked at the results of 25 years of family history research, I’d not have been happy. My wife’s had yielded good results but as for mine…. a father totally unknown, and a grandmother’s birth certificate that was not hers, transforming her into a dreaded brick-wall to a quarter of my family tree. Yet a fortnight later much had changed.

 

"An email from Ancestry DNA produced two close relatives – Ellen in Canada and Chris sixty miles away. Exchanging emails led to a rapid discovery of how we were linked. Ellen, on facial features, insisted I resembled two of her great-uncles; Chris, by producing the birth-father’s name (let’s call him ‘RBW’) on his own father’s adoption papers, identified which great-uncle was the link.

 

"Now the field was extended as Ellen alerted family members in Canada and encouraged contact between her two ‘new’ cousins and the daughter and two granddaughters of ‘RBW’ They lived in England and couldn’t be more co-operative.

 

"Another DNA test confirmed the links were sound and, as a blood descendant, Chris is being helped to secure details of RBW’s war-service etc. So, about three months after Ancestry’s email, I’ve met up with Chris and FR (one half-niece); illness foiled a full quorum  a few days ago but in April I’m due to meet my half-sister and two more half-nieces (Chris has a sister). Of course, I don’t expect to stop there – would you?

 

"And there’s more: the Ancestry DNA test is autosomal, so it doesn’t readily distinguish between paternal and maternal cousins. I’m discovering that contacts whom I’ve failed to connect to my maternal side over the last two years, are really linked to my ‘new’ family.

 

"One contact is intrigued by how his mother’s maiden name matches the middle name of RBW’s father. Another is now trying to link known Irish migrants to my ‘new’ great-grandmother. I could never find any Irish/Scots individual in my known ancestry to justify the 1/3 ethnic background revealed by Ancestry DNA - now they’re tumbling out into my family tree. As is often the case, one answer means two new questions – which is what makes family history research so addictive.

 

"In summary, it’s not just a brick wall that’s been knocked down: it’s more like revealing the other half of a semi-detached house. So NEVER GIVE UP!!

 

 

How Mary lost one father and found another

It's only by combining records-based research and DNA that you can achieve the best results, as this story from LostCousins member Mary demonstrates:

 

"After many years building my family trees I decided at Christmas 2017 to take an autosomal DNA test with Ancestry.

 

"When the results came back in February my best match (62cM over 3 segments) was with a lady whose ancestors came from Sussex. We spent months trying to find the connection without success. I found a scattering of matches to my maternal trees, and what appeared to be near misses in Aberdeenshire which I assumed was my paternal tree, but no definite matches at all. Initially putting this down to ineptitude, I slowly began to entertain the possibility, that I could be a cuckoo in the nest. With some help from a niece I persuaded my oldest sister to test, and minutes after the results arrived in July, I knew that we were half-sisters, especially as she instantly got a flurry of matches on what I had believed to be my paternal tree.

 

"It took a while to accept that this could be so, and my first steps were to quiz my older sisters, and then friends from my birth village, to find out if they had concealed a secret. They hadn't, so at the age of 75 I had to embark on a quest to discover my birth father, despite my sisters' active discouragement. (They saw my actions to be disloyal to my family, and likely to cause upset to my biological kin, should I succeed.)

 

"It wasn't until September 2018 that I made a start - with my hitherto best match of 62cM across 3 segments. My supposed 3rd cousin had kept in touch and been encouraging throughout, and it was she who pointed out that a scatter of shared matches all pointed to shared great-great-great grandparents Joe and Sarah M, a prolific farming family in East Sussex. They had 10 children and most of them had a similar number, so there are a lot of living descendants.

 

"Having established that I also had DNA matches to siblings of both Joe and Sarah, I proceeded to construct their family tree, eliminating all of the lines I had DNA matches to, on the assumption that their matches were not strong enough. Nevertheless these relatives were all most encouraging, including one who himself was on the hunt for a father connected to the same family tree. Having gone down through a number of generations I had a great number of possible fathers but nothing concrete, and no connection between any of them and my cluster of Aberdeenshire matches.

 

"I looked again at these Aberdeenshire matches, but could find no clear connections between them that would point me in the direction of travel. I looked again at Sussex, searching under place names and immediately found a match with a lady whose great-great-great grandparents came for the same village as my M family. There were no shared matches, but I nonetheless found matches with earlier lines from this second couple, Emma and Alan S. They did not have quite as many children, but still plenty and I traced the trees down hoping for a link between the M and S families. Again, nothing.

 

"The only thing I could think to do was double check the tree I had constructed for the M family in case of error.

 

"Then I had my second bit of luck. I had been seeking help on the Sussex Rootsweb site, and been in contact with a lady related to Joe M's family. She was interested in the M family and started sending me details of descendants, the bulk of which matched my own research, but with one significant exception. A daughter of Joe and Sarah, Lucy, had shown up in the GRO indexes as having married one of two potential husbands. One I had found, the other showed no trace on the census record.

 

"The marriage I had found resulted in a dead end: both Lucy and her daughter died a year after the marriage. When I had first found this I was quite relieved, as it was one less branch to pursue. My Rootsweb contact had, however, a quite different husband for Lucy. Not the one on the GRO, but a man with the same surname as the GRO match. This I readily found on censuses, and when I checked the mother's maiden name for the children (using the new GRO birth indexes) it matched the M family, as did her age and place of birth. My helpful contact had restarted my search!

 

"Lucy and Alan F had followed the family tradition and produced 10 children. Once more I did my best to find matches for their offspring, but drew no conclusions. As it was late I decided to wait for Ancestry hints to arrive. When they did I could scarce believe my eyes. One middle son, Joe F appeared on a Scottish tree, and had married a Clare N in 1912, way up in Banffshire.

 

"I had a match to the tree owner of 39cM across 2 segments, so at last there was a link between my Sussex and Scottish matches. I again developed the Scottish tree and found other weaker, and not shared matches within other branches of this tree.

 

"My luck held. This lady had identified Joe and Clare's first child, and she had married a man with a very unusual surname.

 

"By checking the Electoral Register, plus Facebook pages, I was able to identify a grandson of Joe and Clare who I believed had every chance of being my biological cousin. I wrote, and after a long delay (they had moved house) I received an email. The cousin and his wife could not have been nicer, and he was able to tell me that his mother had had only one sister and one brother, the latter very much younger than I had been expecting, and if my research was accurate, my biological father.

 

"Photos were exchanged, and the young man did have fairly strong resemblances to the younger me and to my daughter, and my cousin was astonished by my resemblance to his granny. He was happy to agree to a DNA test, and because I now had a name of my putative biological father, I was able to find his marriage and death. I sent off for the death certificate whilst the DNA results were awaited. After a very long delay over the Christmas period the death certificate arrived with the name and address of the son, my half-brother, and further Electoral Register searches showed him at the same address in London as he had been 20 years before. I even had a telephone number.

 

"My cousin's wife kindly offered to act as an intermediary to lessen the shock to my 'brother'. At this point I was undecided as that meant I would lose quite a lot of control, so I delayed a decision, hoping for DNA confirmation, and meanwhile wrote a letter explaining my background etc. (though it was never posted).

 

"There seemed to have been some delay sending off the DNA kit, and as the months went by and I anxiously checked Ancestry, I again talked to the cousin's wife and decided to take her up on her offer. A few days later she rang to say that she had spoken to my 'brother' and strange to say, his father had told him, some 50 years before that he had a sister, and had named the county of my birth (it was where his - our - father had been stationed during the war).

 

"Telephone numbers and email addresses were exchanged with a truly remarkable level of acceptance; a frank exchange of information with many more photos followed. We still are awaiting the DNA confirmation but even without it though we are in no doubt of the outcome. It is so good to see physical resemblances and to find common personality traits being described. A real life demonstration of the balance of nature and nurture.

 

"So although at the start with my very distant matches, the likelihood of success seemed low, perseverance and a great deal of luck has given me a result, albeit one that is yet to be finally confirmed by DNA."

 

 

Sylvie finds a half-sister

Sylvie also wrote in this week with a tale of DNA discovery - it's amazing how everything seems to be coming together!

 

"Another success story following your piece on the changes in DNA reporting at Ancestry. Thank you

 

"I don't want people to be frightened by centiMorgans! I was, even though I'd had a couple of matches. First was the daughter of my great-grandfather's half-brother - that was 46 centiMorgans (cM) , and solved with a quick message (this was someone that I have been sharing tree information with for years). Then a match of 571cM and initials only. Again, an exchange of messages revealed her as a 1st cousin.

 

"Then two weeks ago, quite a shock, Wow, 1912 cM! If my 1st cousin was 571cM - just what is this? The match had a small tree on the site and as soon as I looked, I knew exactly where it was leading because I knew her name - she was the daughter of my mother's best friend born some eight years after me. I even have photos of her on this very computer! However there was a very big but - she didn't know who I was (no contact for many many years, my married name on the site and no public tree).

 

"She was very keen to find out. It took a week of exchanges, a week of worrying about the ethics, of taking advice, a week of treading on eggshells and feeding snippets of information about me and my parents - and then the penny dropped. Squeals of delight as she exclaimed 'Oh, my wonderful Auntie and Uncle are your Mum and Dad!' It has a happy ending, we are indeed half-sisters and she is delighted.

 

"Just thought you'd like to know - I can't imagine that you would want to publish this!"

 

 

Penny saved a life

Private John Trickett would have been shot through the heart had it not been for the lucky penny that he kept in his breast pocket. Now it's been put up for auction - as you can see from this BBC article - but what a shame it couldn't stay in the family.....

 

What circumstances would lead you to sell a family heirloom like this? As his grand-daughter says in the article, "It's strange to think that, but for that penny, his children would not have been born and I wouldn't be here."

 

 

What am I reading?

A surprise arrival on my desk this week was Ghost Swifts, Blue Poppies and the Red Star, a new book from one of my favourite authors, Nathan Dylan Goodwin. Set in the aftermath of the Great War, it follows a mother as she tries to understand how her middle son, Malcolm, came to lose his life in the trenches.

 

The sub-title is Mrs McDougall Investigates Book 1 so it looks as if the author is planning a new series - let’s hope it doesn’t stop him adding to the wonderful Forensic Genealogist series featuring Morton Farrier. If you don’t want to wait for my review of this new book, or need to catch up on one of the Morton Farrier books,you can support LostCousins when you use the links below:

 

Amazon.co.uk                    Amazon.com                     Amazon.ca

 

There was another surprise this week - a pre-release copy of a book from another of my favourite authors. But I'm sworn to secrecy....

 

 

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