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Newsletter – 14th February 2023

 

 

R.I.P. Audrey Collins (1954-2023)

Looking back to 2015

Do you remember what it was like to research your tree in 2005?

Balfour declaration – of love

Martha’s marriages

Don’t order military service records just yet!

Competition results

The REAL winners

The trouble with Zoom

Save on subscriptions to Who Do You Think You Are? EXCLUSIVE OFFER

An unusual occupation

Peter’s Tips

Stop Press

 

 

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R.I.P. Audrey Collins (1954-2023)

I first met Audrey Collins at the Victoria & Albert Museum on 27th October 2005. You might wonder how I can be so precise about the date and location – it’s because we met at the launch party for the 1851 England & Wales census, which had just gone online at Ancestry.

 

There were lots of other guests, including Natalie Ceeney, the new Chief Executive of the National Archives, and the actor and presenter Tony  (now Sir Anthony) Robinson – with whom I had a long chat. But it was Audrey who stood out from the crowd – she was so knowledgeable, especially when it came to one of my pet topics, the General Register Office.

 

When the news came last week that Audrey had passed away after a short illness it was as if an earthquake had rocked the genealogical community. Genealogist Dave Annal was one of the first to post a tribute – he and Audrey co-wrote Birth, Marriage and Death Records: A Guide for Family Historians (I ordered my copy even before it was published in 2012, and it has been on my bookshelf ever since).

 

You can read some of the tributes to Audrey here – she will be sorely missed.

 

 

Looking back to 2015

I eventually wrote a very detailed guide to the 1939 Register (you’ll find it here), but when the 1939 Register for England & Wales was first released in 2015 there was only one person in the country who could answer some of my questions – that was Audrey Collins at the National Archives.

 

You can see three of the articles that Audrey wrote about the 1939 Register (as well as articles on many other topics) if you follow this link.

 

 

Do you remember what it was like to research your tree in 2005?

Reading an email I sent to LostCousins members in October 2005 I was struck by how things have changed. I was reminded that in those days an Ancestry subscription cost just £69.95 – which sounded like a bargain until I realised that in 2005 the main British records on the Ancestry site were the England & Wales censuses from 1851-1901. The 1911 and 1921 censuses had yet to be released, and the 1841 Census was missing from Ancestry’s collection.

 

What else was missing? Frankly, most of the resources you and I are most likely to use today had yet to be added – there were no parish registers (just a modest collection of transcribed entries), no Poor Law records, no electoral registers, no educational records to speak of, and no Scottish censuses. If there were any military or immigration records they didn’t merit a mention in my Autumn 2005 newsletter, so clearly the enormous record sets we can search nowadays were added later. Indeed, I’m not sure you could even search the GRO BMD indexes at Ancestry in those days.

 

 

When you think about it, it makes the current price of £69.99 for a six-month Ancestry UK & Ireland subscription seem very reasonable, especially when you consider that most prices have doubled since 2005 (the LostCousins subscription, still just £10 a year, is one of the few things that haven’t changed).

 

 

Balfour declaration – of love

In 1843 James Maitland Balfour wrote a series of love letters to his future wife, Lady Blanche Mary Harriet Gascoyne Cecil, daughter of the 2nd Marquess of Salisbury. Extracts from these letters have been published today, Valentine’s Day, on the National Records of Scotland website – you’ll find the article here.

 

Although the marriage was a fairly short one as Balfour died of TB in 1856, they had 8 children of whom one, Arthur Balfour, was Prime Minister between 1902 and 1905 (and Foreign Minister between 1916 and 1919). Lady Blanche’s brother Robert was also a future Prime Minister – as the 3rd Marquess of Salisbury he held the post three times between 1885-1902, and on the last occasion it was his nephew Arthur who succeeded him.

 

Note: today is our 20th Wedding Anniversary, but I can’t recall ever sending my wife a love letter – we didn’t have that sort of courtship, and I don’t suppose many people do in the 21st century. Of course, we’ve exchanged many cards over the years, most of which are preserved for posterity, but we’ve never been apart long enough to send each other letters. Maybe that’s a good thing?

 

 

Martha’s marriages

On Saturday morning nearly 70 entrants in my recent competition were entranced by Professor Rebecca Probert as she spoke about marriage law as it affects genealogists. I’ve heard Professor Probert speak many times, but every time I learn something new – not least because of the interesting questions from the audience.

 

One fascinating case that hasn’t cropped up at any of the talks I’ve attended is that of Martha Cottam, whose story was recounted by Audrey Collins in this 2012 article on the National Archives website.

 

 

Don’t order military service records just yet!

Obtaining military records from the Ministry of Defence has always been an expensive and lengthy exercise – at many times the waiting list has been so long that by the time a request reached the top of the pile the cheque in payment was out of date, resulting in even more delay.

 

It has always been free of an ex-serviceman or their spouse to obtain their file, but from 1st April it is going to be free for everyone (although there are some restrictions on who can place an order).

 

Follow this link to see what records are available and find out more about the process.

 

 

Competition results

Over 1200 members entered this year’s competition, which ended on 31st January. More than 600 prizes were awarded – most of them opportunities to attend exclusive online events – but there was just one each of the Star Prizes.

 

Findmypast generously donated a 12 month Premium Subscription, the only subscription which includes the 1921 Census – it was won by Suzanne in Shropshire.

 

The Genealogist - UK census, BMDs and more online

A 12 month Diamond Subscription generously donated by The Genealogist was won by Val in Cheshire who will be attending Mark Bayley’s talk on Monday morning to find out more about Map Explorer.

 

Professional genealogist and author Dr Janet Few generously donated a ‘brick wall’ busting session, which was won by Jill in Canada.

 

Dorothy in Canada won the Ancestry US DNA kit generously donated by Terri, whilst the Ancestry UK DNA kit that I donated went to Angela in Essex.

 

The chance to have a will transcribed by professional genealogist Dave Annal was won by Andrew in Nottinghamshire – the only male contestant to win a Star Prize.

 

Finally, Gayle in Australia won the opportunity to Reach Out through my newsletter – I’ll be interested to find out how LostCousins members can help!

 

Many thanks to all those who entered, but also to the donors – without whom there would have been no competition. And thanks to the speakers who gave exclusive talks or interviews: Wendy Percival, the author of the Esme Quentin genealogical mysteries, Professor Rebecca Probert, author of Marriage Law for Genealogists, Else Churchill from the Society of Genealogists (who will be speaking this Friday), and Mark Bayley from The Genealogist (who will be speaking on Monday of next week). I’d also like to thank the team from A Few Forgotten Women who told us about their fascinating project.

 

 

The REAL winners

Of course, the real winners from the competition are the hundreds of members who made connections with fellow researchers who share their ancestors, and have not only been able to share information about past research, but will – in many cases – be collaborating on future research.

 

You can find your ‘lost cousins’ at any time of the year – you don’t need to wait for the next competition. Indeed, waiting could be a mistake: after all, none of us are getting any younger…..

 

 

The trouble with Zoom

Zoom is rather like DNA – genealogists either love it, or they haven’t tried it. Which is a great shame, because over the past 3 years Zoom has wrought one of the greatest changes ever to the genealogy world.

 

Of course, Zoom is not the same as meeting in person – actually it's far better! It eliminates the problems of distance, travelling time, and travel cost for speakers as well as attendees, and generally there's more time for questions than would be possible at a conference or exhibition where there is a fixed schedule.

 

For people in different countries, or with mobility issues, sickness, or vulnerabilities it allows them to listen to, and ask questions of, speakers they might otherwise never hear live.

 

Whilst there may not be an opportunity to talk privately with a speaker, or to chat with other attendees, that's only because nobody has asked for this - Zoom can handle this as well!

 

 


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An unusual occupation

I first met Trevor Rix, founder of TWR Computing (the first specialist supplier of family history software in the UK), at a Suffolk Family History Society event – possibly the Open Day at Mildenhall in May 2004, which was also when I met my 3rd cousin Steve for the first time (we’ve collaborated ever since).

 

A few years later Trevor retired (TWR is now part of My History), but we still bump into each other – and of course, like most experienced family historians he’s a LostCousins member. Recently he drew my attention to this 1881 Census entry:

 

© Crown Copyright Image reproduced by courtesy of The National Archives, London, England and by permission of Ancestry

 

The Public Record Office was the forerunner to The National Archives – so finding someone in the census who was a transcriber for the body that now holds all of the surviving historic censuses for England & Wales is rather special!

 

 

Peter’s Tips

I expect you’re wondering whether my full-fibre upgrade, due on 19th December, is working yet. Sadly it isn’t, even though it is now just over 8 weeks since the Openreach engineer fitted the box on my study wall – but after numerous phone calls I’ve been told that something may happen this week. Fingers crossed!

 

Another long-running saga may be coming to end – I’ve received an email from Asda telling me that a refund has now been issued for the two Classic Panettones that weren’t delivered on 28th November. Indeed, if the email is to be believed they’re also refunding the cost of the two that were delivered, though given the hours I’ve spent on the phone I’d hardly class it as a success!

 

But now I have to go and cook tonight’s meal – a special 20th Anniversary dinner of Chateaubriand with Sauce Bearnaise, new potatoes, asparagus, mange tout, and mushrooms. I’ll be opening a bottle of 2006 Penfolds Bin 28 Kalimna Shiraz which cost me £6 about 15 years ago – a perfect accompaniment.

 

 

Stop Press

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I’ll be back soon with more news and views from the world of genealogy – and in the meantime I look forward to seeing some of you at Else Churchill’s talk on Friday, or Mark Bayley’s presentation on Monday.

 

 

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Peter Calver

Founder, LostCousins

 

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