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Newsletter – 10th August 2024

 

 

Latest news from the General Register Office

Buckinghamshire vicar fired by parishioners

Was your ancestor a wheelwright?

Why a clutch of Goslings were baptised in 1689

Mapping matches

Can you collaborate with a cousin who doesn’t share your DNA?

Who Do You Think You Are? celebrates 20th Birthday

DNA at the Olympics

Last chance to save on Ancestry DNA ENDS THIS WEEKEND

Gardeners Corner

Peter’s Tips

Stop Press

 

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Latest news from the General Register Office

Last month the GRO added births and deaths for 2022 to their online indexes. Otherwise the site hasn’t changed, but it seems there are some developments in the works – earlier this week I was shown a prototype of a new ordering system, though there was no hint of any new services.

 

Quite by chance I also discovered a government report from 2016 entitled An inspection of the General Register Office for England and Wales, with particular emphasis on birth records – you’ll find a PDF version here.

 

Ironically it’s the sort of report I might have written myself, since it was highly critical of the GRO’s failure to keep up with technology – I suspect that the PDF trial which began in November 2016 was prompted, at least in part, by the recommendations of the Independent Chief Inspector who compiled the report.

 

Since then things have change dramatically, though there are lots of ways in which the website could be improved further – it probably doesn’t help that it attempts to be all things to all customers. Personally I’d like to see a more flexible search, even if it only applies to historical records – but I know that a lot of you would like to have a new marriage index.

 

Note: many of you will be aware the General Register Office is based in Southport, where three innocent children were slaughtered last week, and many more were injured. Southport is a large town with nearly 100,000 inhabitants, so the chances are that none of the staff at the GRO were directly affected by the terrible events, but the whole town is in mourning, so I would nevertheless suggest that we all show forbearance in the event that one of our orders is delayed, or falls short of our expectations in any way.

 

 

Buckinghamshire vicar fired by parishioners

Parishioners of St Leonard’s, near Wendover Woods in Buckinghamshire have voted 21-0 to ask their vicar to step down – though it seems he is under no obligation to do so. 21 votes might not sound very many, but according to this article it’s far more than attend the average service at St Leonard’s.

 

I should mention that St Leonard’s is just one of 4 parishes for which the vicar is responsible – and to the best of my knowledge none of the others have voiced objections.

 

 

Was your ancestor a wheelwright?

Although it’s often not possible to determine what an ancestor’s occupation was from parish records prior to 1813, I do know that at least two of my direct ancestors (and several other relatives) were wheelwrights. For thousands of years it was an essential skill – not only were carts, chariots, and carriages fitted with wooden wheels, so were some early motor cars!

 

I would imagine that most people reading this have at least one wheelwright in their tree – which makes it all the more surprising to learn that there are now only about 25 wheelwrights working in the whole of the UK (according to the Worshipful Company of Wheelwrights, which was incorporated in 1670 in the reign of King Charles II).

 

I came across this statistic when reading a BBC News article about a 15 year-old girl who is keen to train as wheelwright – she would become the only female wheelwright in the country. I do hope that she is able to gain an apprenticeship.

 

 

Why a clutch of Goslings were baptised in 1689

My 6G grandfather John Gosling was baptised at the parish church of St Barnabas, Great Tey, Essex on 21st June 1689. He married Mary Harvy (sic) in the adjoining parish of Aldham on 30th April 1706, so on the face of it he could have been a mere 17 years old (or even 16) at the time of the wedding.

 

However, the parish register shows that he wasn’t the only Gosling baptised in June 1689 – his sisters Sarah and Judith were baptised the same day. Unfortunately there is nothing in the register to indicate how old any of them were, or when they were born, but I have a feeling that there’s a reason why they were all baptised then.

 

On 24th May 1689, three months after William of Orange and his wife Mary succeeded to the English throne as William III and Mary II, the Toleration Act of 1688 received Royal Assent. From that date protestant nonconformists were allowed their own places of worship, subject to certain conditions (you can read more about the Act here).

 

The timing of the baptisms could just have been a coincidence but for another discovery – I found the burial of my 7G grandfather Nicholas Gosling in Quaker records at Findmypast:

 

© Crown Copyright Image reproduced by courtesy of The National Archives, London, England and used by kind permission of Findmypast

 

Also, on 20th June 1689 – the day before the baptisms in the parish church of Great Tey – there was a Quaker marriage between Jonathan Gosling of Much Tey (ie Great Tey) and Judeth Gardner of Coggeshall. I don’t know how, or even whether, I’m related to Jonathan Gosling, but I’d be surprised if there isn’t a connection.

 

Quakers don’t practice baptism, either for infants or adults – but in the days before civil registration began in 1837 an entry in the baptism register of the parish church was the only evidence of parentage that was legally-acceptable. I can therefore understand why Nicholas and his wife Elizabeth might have chosen to present their three children for baptism – although, as we’ll see in a moment, I know that they had at least one other child……

 

One of useful features of Quaker marriage records is the long list of witnesses at the end – see this article for more details. And searching through marriages celebrated in Essex from 1689-1721 I came across a marriage record that proved very informative indeed!

 

 © Crown Copyright Image reproduced by courtesy of The National Archives, London, England and used by kind permission of Findmypast

 

I don’t often reproduce such a long document, but if you’ve never seen a Quaker marriage record before,you’ll find it very instructive.

 

The first clues were in the heading: “John Clark son of Solomon Clark of Ballington of the County of Suffolk Wool Comber and Elizabeth Appleton Daughter of Nicholas Gosling Carpenter of Tayne in the County of Essex widdow of Thomas Appleton Deceased”.

 

Note: further research revealed that 'Tayne' was, in fact, an old spelling of 'Tey', as you can see from this transcription of a 1633 document held by the Essex Record Office.

 

I now knew that Nicholas had at least one other daughter – Elizabeth, named after her mother – and that he was a carpenter by trade, information that isn’t recorded anywhere else. ‘Tayne’ is probably an error for ‘Rayne’, a village about 8 miles from Coggeshall, whilst Ballington clearly refers to Ballingdon in Suffolk (which is not much further away)

 

Amongst the relations listed at the bottom right are my 7G grandfather Nicholas, and my 6G grandparents John & Mary Gosling. I suspect, but have not yet proved, that Tapp was the married name of John’s sister, Judith – who was baptised on that same day in 1689.

 

Another uncertainty relates to the date – you will recall that in England prior to 1752 the year began on 25th March, not 1st January, which is why you’ll sometimes see dates between 1st January and 25th March shown as (say) 1717/18.

 

Note: records that have been transcribed sometimes show the old-style year and sometimes the new-style year, but rarely can you discover which protocol has been followed without further investigation. At some site you may find the same entries transcribed twice with different years – confusing unless you know why!

 

In Quaker records dates are particularly perplexing since they often omit the names of the months, and instead refer to them according to their order in the calendar. In the image above the date is recorded as the “tenth day of the first month called March in the year according to the English account One thousand seven Hundred & Eighteen” but it’s not clear whether the marriage took place in the year 1717/18 or 1718/19. Nicholas didn’t die until September 1719, so either is possible – and I haven’t found Thomas Appleton’s burial, which might have settled the matter.

 

Note: there’s a guide to the Quaker calendar here.

 

Coincidentally, as I was writing this article my wife was having afternoon tea with a friend in Great Tey. It’s a small world!

 

 

Mapping matches

Two of the key strategies in the DNA Masterclass involve searching the trees of your matches. At Ancestry you can not only search for surnames, but also for birthplaces.

 

In the Masterclass I recommend creating a list of all your ancestral surnames and regularly searching the trees of your DNA matches for each one (it’s important to repeat the search not only because of new matches, but also because some older matches have added or updated their tree).

 

Note: one of the advantages of searching the trees of your matches is that it passes over cousins who have no tree at all, as well as most of the matches who have minimal trees.

 

When you search by surname it’s easy to find the relevant people in your cousin’s tree – but it might not be immediately obvious how you can find the people who were born in a particular parish or county. In fact, this was something I struggled with myself until Crista Cowan, one of Ancestry’s leading lights, reminded me about the map of Ancestor Birth Locations that is displayed beneath each match’s tree (the 5-generation tree, not the extended tree or the full tree).

 

 

At the top left of the map you’ll see the words Filter by tree – this allows you to see ancestral birth locations in both trees, in your tree, or in your cousin’s tree. Since you got to this point by searching your cousin’s tree it’s important to choose that filter.

 

By default the map shows the whole world – so you’ll need to zoom in considerably to see towns and villages, eg:

 

 

Click on the pink and blue markers to see the name of the ancestor and their birthplace; a green icon with a number indicates multiple ancestors born in the same area.  

 

 

Can you collaborate with a cousin who doesn’t share your DNA?

If you’ve taken a DNA test you’ll have upwards of 10,000 matches with cousins, most of whom will be 5th cousins or more distant. However, just because someone is a cousin of yours doesn’t guarantee that you’ll have inherited the same segments of DNA from your common ancestors – in fact, once you get beyond 4th cousins the odds are that you won’t. Indeed, you might not share DNA with all of your 3rd cousins!

 

Note: the fact that you don’t share any DNA with a particular cousin doesn’t mean that you haven’t inherited any DNA from the ancestors that you share – that’s possible, but unless the common ancestors are 10 or more generations back it’s unlikely. What IS likely is that you’ve both inherited DNA from the common ancestors, but that the segments don’t overlap. See this newsletter article from 2021 for an easy to understand, practical example using two packs of playing cards.

 

When you have a DNA match with another Ancestry user you can view the matches that you share. But if your DNA doesn’t match you can’t do that – indeed, Ancestry won’t even tell you whether the other person has tested. So does this mean that there is no point collaborating with your cousin?

 

The first thing to bear in mind is that genealogists generally don’t take DNA tests because they want to find cousins – they take the test because they want to knock down ‘brick walls’. Cousins are a means to an end: because you’re up against the same ‘brick wall’ you’ll both gain from co-operating and collaborating. In terms of conventional research this might mean exchanging ideas and hypothesises, or ensuring that you’re not unwittingly duplicating each other’s research.

 

Note: there’s nothing wrong with double-checking, but if it means that some records don’t get checked at all, or that some plausible theories never get tested, it’s counter-productive.

 

However, it’s not nearly so obvious how cousins who don’t share the same DNA can collaborate on DNA  after all, the first thing we usually do is to look at shared matches, and as mentioned above, Ancestry only report shared matches for genetic cousins.

 

My brother and I share roughly half of our DNA – so it’s likely that my brother’s closest matches are also going to show up in my list. However, the vast majority of our matches are distant matches – and the more distant they are, the less likely it is that they’ll appear in both our lists. That sounds like bad news, but actually it’s good news – because it means I’ve got more matches to work with.

 

Now let’s suppose that you have a 4th cousin who shares one of your ‘brick walls’. Since you don’t share any DNA with them, the chances are that whilst you’ll both have matches with other cousins who share the same ‘brick wall’, there will be little or no overlap between the lists. In other words, by pooling your resources you’ll have access to twice as many clues – you just need to work together, which means sharing your DNA matches.

 

Working together could mean that you’re both equally involved – or it could mean that one of you takes the lead. It’s really up to you, but bear in mind that other people are more likely to agree to collaborate if you offer to do most of the work.

 

 

Who Do You Think You Are? celebrates 20th Birthday

Earlier this year it was the 20th Birthday of LostCousins – now another venerable institution is about to reach the same landmark.

 

The very first episode of Who Do You Think You Are? which aired on 12th October 2004 featured comedian and ornithologist Bill Oddie – since then there have been 160 more episodes, and there is a new series starting shortly. I’m sure we all have our favourite episodes, but you might be interested in the 20 great moments compiled by Who Do You Think You Are? magazine – you’ll find them here.

 

Talking of the magazine, if you’re in the UK you can still get 6 issues for just £9.99 in the offer I arranged earlier this year – please follow this link so that you can support LostCousins. There are also discounts for overseas readers – click the link to see what’s available in your home country.

 

 

DNA at the Olympics

One of the more controversial stories of the Paris Olympics has been the row over the eligibility of two boxers who compete against females but seem to benefit from certain male traits.

 

It’s an incredibly complex topic, as well as a controversial one, so I was relieved to find this BBC article which explains in simple terms how chromosomal anomalies and hormonal imbalances in the womb can affect gender.    

 

 

Last chance to save on Ancestry DNA ENDS THIS WEEKEND

As the Olympics end, so do Ancestry’s DNA offers. So now’s the time to make up your mind – in the words of the old song, “don’t dilly dally on the way”.

 

There are three ways genealogists can go wrong with DNA – one is not to use it at all, which is like boxing with one hand tied behind your back. The second is to test the wrong person – always choose someone from the earliest surviving generation. And finally – choose the right test, the one that Ancestry sell (and not an ‘Ancestry’ test sold by another firm).

 

As I’ve probably mentioned before, DNA is – like genealogy – more of a marathon than a sprint, and for those of you have never tested it must be rather like the pole vaulter’s leap of faith. The good news is that you don’t have to understand DNA in order to make use of it – so long as you can remember that DNA can only be passed from parent to child, and follow the simple steps in my DNA Masterclass you can’t go wrong.

 

A good way to familiarise yourself with DNA is to hold back the urge to make discoveries, and instead use your matches to confirm the records-based research in your tree. It’s something anyone can do, and the feeling of satisfaction you’ll get when you prove that you got it right all those years ago is worth a small amount of effort.

 

A few people will discover that their DNA matches don’t correspond with the tree that they’ve built using records. You might, for example, find that there is nobody connected to you via one of your grandparents.

 

Traumatic though it might be to make an unwelcome discovery,  just consider how much worse it would be if you never knew? It doesn’t bear thinking about – researching someone else’s ancestors believing them to be our own is the genealogist’s worst nightmare!

 

To take advantages of Ancestry’s offers and – with luck – help to support the LostCousins site, please use the relevant link below:

 

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Tip: in the UK I can save on delivery costs by buying multiple kits in the same order – you may find that it’s the same where you are. Remember that you don’t need to specify who will be testing – I always like to have a spare kit in reserve.

 

 

Gardeners Corner

My wife had a special birthday recently, and I found her a rather special gardening book. Some people might turn their noses up at a second-hand book, but my wife was absolutely delighted to receive a volume that was nearly 200 years older than she was! It wasn’t cheap, but I bought it from Oxfam, so my money has gone to a good cause. (You can download a free PDF version here)

 

Much easier to find, and certainly more affordable, is a book that Siân bought for herself from the Gardening Express website, the source of many of the trees, shrubs, and roses that are growing in our garden. For a mere £5.95 this large format, beautifully-illustrated book will look beautiful on your coffee table, but The Illustrated Gardener's Guide to Growing Fuchsias is much more useful than that!

Siân delved straight into the book, and although it was published in 2011 (so it doesn’t contain details of the fuchsias bred since then) she tells me that it is excellent for advice about how to choose, group, and site fuchsias by location, hardiness, size, and effect. And if you have been tempted to propagate your own, keep them over winter, or grow fuchsias into standard trees, pyramids, hedges, or other features, this book could save you a fortune and bring years of pleasure.

 

The only downside is the delivery charge of £6.99 but if you’re also ordering plants you’ll only pay one delivery charge. You’ll find their Special Deals page here, but Siân also asked me to mention their End of Season Clearance – only 19 items when I looked just now, but the prices are incredible!

 

 

Peter’s Tips

I was recently asked to explain what LostCousins does, and I thought it was worth repeating this short explanation:

 

The inspiration for LostCousins was that the further we get back, the more ancestral lines there are to research (because the number doubles with ever generation), and the more difficult it is to research our ancestors (because there are fewer records and they tend to be less-detailed and less-accurate).

 

Connecting with experienced researchers who share our ancestral lines enables the exchange of past research, but it also offers the prospect of collaboration.

 

Collaboration often involves an exchange of ideas about how a particular 'brick wall' might be knocked down, but might extend to a sharing out of research tasks to avoid duplication of effort and reduce the chance of leaving gaps.

 

For example, a common problem is that everyone focuses their attention on the records that are online, and easily-accessible, but nobody visits the relevant record office (or an LDS family history centre) to look at records that aren't online.

 

If you’re not already taking part in the LostCousins project to connect experienced family historians around the world who are researching the same ancestors, perhaps now is the time to start?

 

 

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