Your Success Stories

We really appreciate it when members who have found ‘lost cousins’ take the time to tell us what it has meant for them and for their research. It’s great to find out about your ancestors, but to discover a relative that you didn’t know existed can be a truly wonderful experience.

These brief extracts are taken from some of the stories sent to us by members – we hope you find them as inspirational as we did!

Barbara in Washington found a cousin in Canada just a week after completing her My Ancestors page....

"I submitted information in early January. Within one week, I heard from a 'lost cousin' in Canada! We are 3rd cousins, once removed. We shared information. She filled in some blank spaces for me. And we are having great fun exchanging information about each other. What a great service you provide!"

Gwyn in New Zealand found her 3rd cousin in Yorkshire!

"I had begun to think that I was the only one researching my family tree, but was delighted to be proved wrong when I heard from my 3rd cousin in Yorkshire. We have corresponded regularly since the link was found, exchanging certificates, filling in blanks, and sending photos. I am delighted that we were able to make this connection because of Lost Cousins, so thank you. It has inspired me to try and broaden the scope of my research."

Leigh in Sydney, Australia was delighted to discover a new branch of his family in England....

"A huge thank you to LostCousins for facilitating my 4th Cousin in Surrey, England tracking me down in Sydney, Australia through a common ancestor listed on LostCousins. What I found amazing was that I didn't even know that this branch of the family existed. I can not thank LostCousins enough for hosting this fantastic site to link relatives across the world."

Veronica wrote from Australia to tell us about the British cousin she'd found:

"Just to say thank you for finding a 'lost cousin' for me. We have made contact and will be able to exchange family notes as he didn't know about any Australian connection. As contact had been lost over the last two generations, I had been hoping to find someone on that branch in Leicester, as I am coming to the UK in Aug/Sept and hopefully now we will be able to meet in person. My sincere thanks once again, Veronica."

Sheila in the USA struck lucky very quickly....

"I joined LostCousins just a few days ago and I am already exchanging information with a newly found "cousin." We both live in the US but our common ancestor was in Scotland. My thanks also to the LostCousins Team for solving the mystery of a missing family of relatives in the US 1880 census. The name was misspelled so badly I would never have found it."

Jill was so pleased to discover a 'lost cousin' in New Zealand that she wrote to tell us all about it....

"...the contact from Del in New Zealand has been fabulous. We are definitely related. My grandfather was born West Derby 1885, and moved and settled in Cork, Ireland pre 1909 and then married my Irish grandmother. Like many men he did not tell us that much about his family. My grandfather was the only one of his siblings who had children that grew to adulthood and so as he and his siblings are long dead we thought that side of the family was lost to us. Now through Del, who is descended from his mother's sister, we have discovered a whole host of relations that we knew nothing about. She has even sent a family wedding photo from 1923 that I have been able to identify for her some of the family links - she had the names but not how they fitted into her family, whereas I knew the connection. It is clear that this contact is wonderful for us both and would not have come about without the Lost Cousins site. Thank you."

New member Karen in Canada struck gold just days after joining...

"Thank you so much - the first day after having entered my ancestors' 1881 info from the census, a cousin and I "found" each other. The link was GGG Grandparents for her and GG Grandparents for me.... We are half a world away, as I live off the west coast of Canada, while she lives in England. Thank you so much for your wonderful site."

Laurie, one of our US members, was delighted to discover a 'lost cousin' in England:

"This site is a fantastic idea... Very soon after I entered the English and Canadian relatives of my ancestor I made a match with someone from the family of his brother James who remained in England. If that weren't exciting enough, my new-found cousin held the answer to a mystery of mine. Even though I had the 1864 funeral memorial card and his death certificate from England, I could not locate where William's father Thomas was buried in England. He was not listed in the burial register of the family parish church where he would be expected to be buried. The first email response from my found cousin included a photograph of the tombstone of Thomas and his wife Mary located in the churchyard of the "new" church opened in 1871 in their village. The tombstone indicated that Thomas had been interred in the original churchyard where I had expected him to be in the first place; he had been left out of the burial register!"

Lesley in Sussex had a surprise present this Christmas!

"I just want to thank you for such a wonderful concept and a great website. Thanks to LostCousins I made contact with an unknown distant cousin in Australia on Christmas Day, and we have exchanged some fascinating information and photos. The concept is such a good idea - it's exciting to have the possibility of being put in touch with distant relatives. The way it works makes it safe to make contact and I'd like to thank you for making it possible."

Cath was absolutely delighted when she discovered her first 'lost cousin':

"Just wanted to thank you. Up to now I have contacted two cousins, one which I already knew, but the latest is somebody from Australia whose grandfather emigrated there as a child - and he didn't know anything about his great-grandfather's siblings. It's really exciting when something turns up - whoever thought this idea up was brilliant, and I am passing the word around to anybody who is interested in family trees. Can't wait for the next match!"

Sheila travelled all the way from her home in the Midlands to the family history fair at Gateshead in order to meet her 'lost cousin' Pauline.

"I had been contacted through LostCousins by a lady named Pauline who turned out to be my 3rd cousin. We share great great grandparents, and though Pauline and I do not look alike it was exciting to meet her. I gave her a photo of my mum and her cousin and also a picture of a family gathering where many of my great aunts and uncles were present."

Heather in Australia was very lucky indeed:

"I was so excited when I found a lost cousin almost immediately, but ironically she had been waiting for ages and thought she was the only one on the site." It just goes to show that you should never give up - there could be a lost cousin just around the corner!

We helped Jan in Dorset to track down some of her relatives, and she found a 'lost cousin' shortly afterwards:

"Just to let you know have been in contact with my first find from your site......from yet another branch of my father's family. We are now busy exchanging BMD certs, census details, photos etc. Both of us hoping to identify mystery people in various photos. Brilliant site; let's hope I can soon find some more. PS I'm still telling people how helpful you were in my quest for my great-grandparents and their baby son on 1901 census!"

Louise in Bedfordshire was highly delighted:

"I'm amazed!! I only subscribed and put my ancestors on Lost Cousins yesterday. Within a few hours the granddaughter of my great great grandad's brother had contacted me. I couldn't believe I had found someone so quickly!"

Vivian found her first 'lost cousin' the day after registering! Her story is particularly heart-warming:

"I was told by my grandmother that she was only allowed to marry my grandfather on condition that he disowned his 'working class roots'. I knew nothing about his family except for the names of a few of my father's uncles and aunts, but no details. I was delighted when Lost Cousins put me in touch with a descendant of my grandfather's brother who supplied not only details of my grandfather's immediate family, but also three more generations of the family tree and photos."

Sandra in Portugal was absolutely delighted that just 4 days after joining she found a cousin who shared the same great-great grandparents:

"I'm so excited that for the first time I've met someone else researching this family", she told us. She was soon busy exchanging information with her new-found relative in England.

Veronica wrote to us about her experiences:

"As I live in Australia I tend to have to do most of my research via the internet. On my first attempt using the Lost Cousins website I found a third cousin once removed on the maternal side of my family tree living in England. This was very exciting for me as I had exhausted most of the usual web sites and was in need of some fresh leads. We have exchanged emails and photographs and I am looking forward to learning as much as possible about our relatives. I have a particular interest in social history therefore the way our ancestors lived and survived is of particular interest. It was a wonderful surprise to learn about LostCousins, and to actually trace a living relative on my first attempt was a wonderful treat! I now hope to find some 'lost cousins' on the paternal side of my family tree!!"

Frank in Ireland wrote to thank us:

"I should like to thank LostCousins for putting me in touch with one of mine who so kindly has given me my grandmother's full family tree right back to 1575. To say that I was 'gobsmacked' would be putting it mildly."

Jean from Perth, Western Australia found a cousin in another part of the continent:

"I decided to research my husbands grandfather's family (Richard Harrison). I had very little information, I found out that he had two brothers that migrated to Australia - Reuben and Walter Harrison. Richard worked for the Government Printers and lived in Glen Forrest in Western Australia. The brothers we heard stayed in Victoria. I tried looking in the shipping lists, but now know I was looking a lot later than when they actually came to Australia. I got Richard's marriage and death certificates which told me his parents names, so then was able to get more information from the 1881 census - I now knew he had quite a few brothers. My friend told me about the Lost Cousins website and so I quickly put typed out all data on the site. The next day I could not believe it - I was contacted by "LostCousins" and told yes there was a "lost cousin". Our lost cousin lives in Queensland, Australia. He has given me so much information and photos - in fact we have found MANY LOST COUSINS. We have exchanged information and are keeping in touch. It was an incredible experience to find all our lost relatives and hopefully one day we will meet. Indeed a wonderful site. Thank you LostCousins."

Virginia wrote to tell us about her dicoveries:

"I have made contact with a second cousin in New Zealand who I didn't even know existed. This is very exciting and useful. We had each found some information the other hadn't yet found, and we also each have some photos the other didn't have. In addition, we have been able to exchange a lot of information about the family which would not be available in any records. I am so glad to have found my lost cousin and am looking forward to many more exchanges of emails and information."

When Janet from Brisbane discovered that she'd inadvertently omitted an ancestor from her My Ancestors page, little did she know what would result.

"I entered her details and within a short time I was connected to a distant cousin and we exchange emails almost daily and encourage each other with our research. We are now researching some ancestors in 1698! I have since entered every ancestor I can find who was around in 1881."

Gordon in Yorkshire was clearly delighted when he wrote that:

"Within a week of joining I have made contact with a lost cousin in Canada!". A few weeks later he wrote to us again: "Since contact was made emails have been flying backwards and forwards across the Atlantic; I have had loads of background family information from my 'lost cousin' and lots of old photographs."

Carmel from New South Wales was amazed when she found a 'lost cousin':

“I was very excited and could scarcely believe my luck” she told us. Since then they’ve shared research, discovered the truth behind some of the family stories that had been passed down - and according to Carmel “we are about to share some photos which each of us would never have seen without the help of LostCousins”.

Just because links are made through the 1881 Census doesn't mean that the common ancestor was still alive then:

John from Essex discovered this when he found his first 'lost cousin' - their common ancestor was born in Devon in 1749! "It was extremely helpful", said John, "As a result I have visited the village churches where our shared ancestors came from and found more interesting facts."

The ‘lost cousin’ that Barbara from Yorkshire found was right on her doorstep!

He was distant in one way – a third cousin once removed – but very close in another, because once they’d got to know each other they discovered that they were living just a mile apart!

Pamela in Australia was “very pleased” to find a 3rd cousin, and discovered that it helped her research in two ways:

“Firstly, we each had information that the other didn’t. Secondly we are now co-operating in our research and this has been very fruitful. We share tasks and exchange results, and it has given us a new impetus.”

Barbara in Wales found a ‘lost cousin’ in New Zealand:

“It’s really exciting, and so helpful to research.” When we spoke to Barbara they had exchanged information from the different branches of the family – and Barbara was looking forward to collaborating on future research.

Kate in Canada found a 'lost cousin in England:

"I'm very excited” she told us, as she described how she had been exchanging information with her previously unknown cousin.

Jenny in Yorkshire found a ‘lost cousin’ in Hampshire:

As a result she was able to fill in several gaps on her family tree. How did she feel about finding a new cousin? “Very excited!”

Carol in Essex was “very excited” to find a ‘lost cousin’ in Lancashire:

Finding a living relative who shares her ancestors has helped her complete a section of her family tree that previously she knew next to nothing about!

LaRae in the United States discovered a cousin in Britain!

She told us that “had a great time sharing information” with her new-found British cousin. “We were totally unknown to each other, yet our ancestry matched - I am so impressed with the LostCousins method.”

Gemma in Yorkshire reckons that finding a ‘lost cousin’ was fantastic:

"I was beginning to wonder if any other cousins existed.” Her new cousin has helped her to go back into the 1700s, but also to extend her tree forwards. She likes the way that LostCousins finds accurate matches – she considers it is “a lot better” than other websites.

 

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